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What should I do? (problem)

There is one person that keeps talking too much crap almost each day but I talk back and it is **** me off. I might have the upper hand to beat him down because I know boxing but I don't want to get suspended or get a bad reputation. If your just going to say that I should snitch I won't do that i'll just be getting a bad rep. I'm in 10th grade and he is too but if I fight him the half the 10th grad will hate me and I will only be hanging out with the 11th but I don't want that. I had a thought that I should tell him " Just shut he f*** up and stop or I will beat the
f*** out of you" But that will cause problems probably. What do you think I should do?

ILoveBacon

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Re: What should I do? (problem)

When nobodies looking, give him a punch in the balls. I know you dont want a fight so dont get into one, pretend that it isn't you, when it oviously is. Deny everything. This always works.

tak4n

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OHHHH... Hate that... Here I had an idiot who had brain problems following me and my friends around school, sitting next t every time and annoying us. All we could do is ignore him, the whole class hates him. Luckily this year, another guy came into our class and he became friends with this idiot and he stopped following us. We tried telling teachers and even use physical action but it didn't help. 2 years of getting annoyed by him. If the person in your situation doesn't have an ADD or some other problem then you should talk to him about the problem but if he has some problem then it is all about luck for him to stop annoying you. I hope you will be just as lucky as we are this year.

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Gaming_Guy

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Re: What should I do? (problem)

Try to ignore him, if you can't then just tell him to go away. I hope I helped.

coolmanman

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Re: What should I do? (problem)

Troll him, troll him hard!

Nou

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Re: What should I do? (problem)

Laugh at his talking crap, pretend you think it's funny. Laughing really really makes people powerless.

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xputnameherex

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Re: What should I do? (problem)

This one is actually really good:

When he tries to talk to you, walk away and chuckle. If he gets mad and starts a fight, good, he started it.

Win-Win.

5600

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Re: What should I do? (problem)

Laugh at his talking crap, pretend you think it's funny. Laughing really really makes people powerless.

That might help iv'e done that before. If it don't I don't know what will I do because if he pushes me too far I will get **** and beat the soul out of him. Sometimes I ignore people but they thought I was to weak to talk back. Thanks by the way.

GKAbyss

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Honestly I've never had something like this happen to me before. I've heard that people have laughed at me behind my back, but I can't really do anything about that, nor is it that bad for me, for some reason.
I would advise to tell someone, at my school there's a phone number you can call to report bullying where you'll remain anonymous, but if everyone will hate you, though I actually don't see why they should if you tell, since it's what you're supposed to do, but I guess that won't change the fact that they will.

I really don't know what to do, I've never had something like this happen before.

plat aka kingpooultra

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Re: What should I do? (problem)

You care to much about what other people think. Relax. Violence is not the answer.

Last edited by Kingpooultra (Apr 14 2012 6:59:34 am)

xputnameherex

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You care to much about what other people think. Relax. Violence is not the answer.

I'm gonna copy and paste this from a Cracked Article that just came out very recently:

"Don't Worry About What Other People Think"

This is the one that drives me crazy, because not only is it just half right, but it's usually the false half that we end up believing. In the movies, what they want you to take from it is that "It's what's inside that matters." Some Kind of Wonderful, Mask (Eric Stoltz, not Jim Carrey), any '80s teen romance that involves a makeover. In many ways, that can be true. But there's another side to that advice.
In a purely literal sense, it's just blatantly false. There are all kinds of situations in which you need to worry about what other people think: job interviews, meeting your girlfriend's parents, the court appearance for your charge of public nudity. On the superficial movie level, yes, it's probably best for your mental health to not let it get to you when the kids in gym class make fun of you for your ridiculously enormous ****.

A Better Alternative:
"Judge criticism based on the source and situation. Also, don't be a crap."
But it's really not an issue of acceptance. It's about respect and avoiding misunderstandings. If the person you're talking to doesn't get sarcasm, you modify your communication to avoid using it. It's not about bowing in submission to The Man -- you do it to prevent hurting other people. I have a friend who doesn't eat meat out of a personal moral belief. I'm not going to walk into her house and start cooking a steak, and she's not going to demand that I change my habits when I visit her. It's a mutual respect. In that sense, the advice holds up.

Where it implodes is when the person following that advice turns their emotions inward and stops caring how their actions are affecting other people. And it's entirely too common. Someone letting loose with a string of cursing around your grandma, who doesn't want to be around that sort of language. When you say something about it, he responds with "Hey, this is just the way I am. If you don't like it, **** off -- I don't give a crap what you think." I've been that guy to a certain extent, and in some ways I still am. Self-centeredness is a hard demon to kill, and it's harder to recognize that it's even there. I suppose that's why it's still around: Most people don't realize there's even an enemy in the room.
Now does that mean you have to worry about what everyone thinks? Hell no, that's impossible. Ninety percent of the people you encounter in life are random faces you just pass by in the pizza rolls aisle. But you do need to have certain peers and respected figures in your life to prevent you from wearing your pajamas to a funeral or tattooing Boba Fett on your neck.

No, the problem is when you confront somebody on behavior that's alienating everyone in their life. They will almost certainly play the "I don't care what other people think!" card, as if that is a universal truth that trumps all context or consequences. That really goes for everything on this list; I'm not denying that every piece of advice here has its place. There's a reason phrases like them become cliches. But the temptation is to use them to boil every difficult decision down into a simple phrase that can't be argued with. And I've learned that if life ever seems that simple, you're probably doing it wrong.

krubby

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Re: What should I do? (problem)

if he says anything to you, say in a guido voice "aaaaaaaaaaayye f*** youez!"

ChaosDemon

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Re: What should I do? (problem)

Well in this case what does "crap" mean? Does he say "I'm better at everything!" or "I can kick you ****" I need to know what he says before I can help

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Re: What should I do? (problem)

Well, what I would do is tell him to shut his **** mouth. Don't threaten him.

Except, if I did that I'd start crying like I always do when I get angry.

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Tachyonic

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Get Tommy Jordan to give him the Laptop treatment.

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I don't care about my rep, which gives me my unique rep. I usually keep my iPod and ear buds and flush out the noise I don't wanna here like the morning announcements, they play rap music on it about twice a week and that's my most hated genre of music. It seems to work with people to unless they're persistant...

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